Generally, when one cannot accept, agree or tolerate an ego pricking circumstance and/ or face the hard truth reality, this has to do with one’s competency to manage his/ her own EXPECTATIONS. Expectation management is a very important SKILLSET in today’s fast-moving WORLD that helps:

1. One to understand and accept the situation with clarity,

2. Lower one’s EGO. Accept the fact that you are NOT always right by ASKING more questions than telling others what it should be,

3. One to face reality and factualism of life,

4. Mindfully identify areas of SELF-LACK since no one can be proficient in everything,

5. Proficiency in skills should clearly display one’s determination, confidence and aplomb to do well in his/ her arena,

6. One to be realistic hence being more reasonable.

 

Learn its close relationship between choice and expectation.

At times, some of our choices made are thankfully reversible. The most painful episode is when an irreversible choice is made, then witness that LOVE and JOY fade away with time—frustration, helplessness and sadness kick in. We unconsciously and unknowingly start vent anger on the next person, “revenge” in our own way, blue ticks messages, swim with those negative emotions and develop into ailments or enter into hibernation mode!

 

To be continued.. you may be keen in the next few blogs. Click below:

What is wrong with my choice? – Retirement (Part 1)

Is my choice realistic? – COVID-19 Reality (Part 2)

What is wrong? – Relationships (Part 3)

Is my choice right? – Career (Part 4)

 

 

 

 

 

#life #choices #expectations #skills #confidence #EGO

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