Why Did I Get Married?

by | Mar 10, 2022 | Blog | 0 comments

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Gender: Female
Age: 35 married with 3 children

Bling got married and after 7 years, the aftermath exploded with an extreme mess. She has to pick up the massive chaos she brought upon herself and her family for making use of someone to fill in her void then.

All getting back on one for not being truthful to SELF and allow one face their own LIES.

1. In the year 2011/12
😌  At this time I just wanted to get married,
😌  I just think about love. Love is enough back then,
😌  I don’t need anything else, I just needed this man to love me.

Why did I get married to my husband? To me,
😌 He is handsome, talented, smart and a very nice man. Though growing up poor but he never fail to try his best to win over fate and does exceptionally well academically. His life exposure and work experience were so much more yet better than mine.

 

1 of 3 All souls make use of something to assuage inner SELF. Unfortunately, there is a price to pay and lessons come back harder to haunt us. Just a matter of time. 

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 2. Fast forward in the year 2018 – 2020 to realise

😌  I am preggy with the 3rd child
😌  Hubby cheated on me
😌 He also cheated and hide all the properties/ wealth he took from my family behind everyone’s back
😌  We moved to another city where no one else possibly know us to start anew.

Energy Groomer:
What happens when we make use of someone else to fill in our own VOID? What if I say he is here to mirror and teach you how to value yourself?

✅  Most souls on mother earth seek and make use of someone or something to fill in what we lack.

✅  It is a very selfish act to make use of someone to fill in your VOID: you have everything except LOVE. When you looked for a man to help love you instead of you learning to LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST, you have only one way out; to attract the man just as selfish enough to fill in his lack. In this case, he has everything except money SINCE HE COMES FROM A POOR FAMILY.

In the end, you didn’t get the love you yearn for, and he has gotten his lesson for robbing your family’s wealth.

✅  When we make use of someone to fill in our VOID, we will have to face the music and aftermath caused by SELF SELFISHNESS! Just a matter of time but will certainly erupt due to the speedy erratic energies here to rock one onto the awakening path.

Everyone’s VOID is different. Just be honest and truthful to SELF. Because one wrong sequence in the flow requires lots of effort to antidotal and remedial it back on track..

❓  why do you want to marry?
❓  why him/ her? What do you really see in him/ her?
❓  Are you open enough and enjoy each other company like BFF who can bring out the best in you?
❓  Are you able to share and chat everything under the sky, free from reservation without holding SELF back?
❓ How HONEST have you been to SELF right from the beginning?

✅  Partners ideally be like BFF; here to complement and bring out the best in each other to reach the next greater heights you deem good.

2 of 3 Are you able to see the brightness and darkness of life while sharing common life values, perspectives and goals that would last a lifetime

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3. In the year 2021/22
😌 I tried finding peace through meditation which seems to work but something is still lacking
😌  Everything seemed calm and alright for me.
😌 However, work-life imbalance. It was not sustainable and life seemed stagnant without much growth with debts that never seem to be addressed.
😌 Youngest child did not like her father. Each time he comes close, she refused, pushed him away and at times, slapped him!!!
😌 Whenever her dad tried his best to take care of her, she turned away and ignored him. The more she rejects her dad, the more her dad tries harder.
😌 I was wondering why this little girl detests her dad that much; was it due to some clash in zodiac signs?
😌  Truth be told, I felt good inside out – my importance for her choosing me over the dad.

 

Energy Groomer:
✅ You need to brace up. Face your own hard truth, ugly emotions and STOP sweeping them under carpet. The more you do that, the more you learn to trust SELF.

✅ Every modality helps. Meditation may calm one on the surface but deep underwater turbulence remains (emotions swept under carpet and suppressed). Vehicle(body) under tremendous stress – how would you have enough positive energy to GROW with everyday life when you unknowingly and unconsciously been busy, spending time keeping your emotions under wraps? Such heavy yet invisible burden and pressure in the heart, hence can only race and pound fast! Extreme discomfort and uneasiness within. Watch health for blood-related issues. Mind-body disconnected, hence the loss in monetary forms too. 

✅ The poor child took in all of mom’s emotions during her full term. Re-enact everything like a LIVE movie right before your eyes when she is born. The child merely mirrors mom’s “wellbeing” with daddy – Just like how mommy wanted dad’s attention right from the start, he ignored her. Now, the more dad wants the baby, the more she moves away. She prefers and turned to mom even more. 

Isn’t this hilarious but outright truth when you focus – POWER OF NOW that encompasses synchronicity! 

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Reminder:

🎯 Be mindful of the “generation curse” that might have dribble down to you, inducing the similar repeated history, hence the undesirable life patterns. Only you can stop if you are aware.

🎯 Be fair to your child. They are not the tool you made use of to fill in the void between you and your hubby.

🎯 WE ARE THE CAUSE of the unpleasant or non-ideal spot in the various sectors of your life. Before we finger point and shift blame, assume FULL responsibility to check SELF deeper.

🎯 The external of us tells a million stories of our inner baby; we attract and act upon our beliefs.

🎯 Hence, constantly check and review our belief system. What we know and believe might be dated in this ever fast-moving digital world. A good bridge to mind-body connectedness. This can only be done when we are mindful of our EGO, which governs our level of mind-openness.

🎯 No one is here to judge what is right or wrong. Our eventual outcomes will present us if we were right and instantly discern what we could have done better if you keep an OPEN MIND and be in awareness.

🎯 Let go of your FACE VALUE which didn’t work after all yet causes stoppages and stagnation to your relationships!

 

How many of you get married for the different various reasons below:

1. For love.
“At that time love is enough for me, I don’t need anything else. I just needed a man to love me”

2. Someone to rely on
“I just needed man to rely on so my life gets easier”

3. Pressure
“Everyone else is married with kids and seemingly have a happily ever after life. I need to quicken my pace and stay lin line and not lag behind lest my siblings possess a bigger share in family asset or fortune

“I want have babies, my own children too!”

4. Happiness
“I wasn’t happy with my present life then, so I just needed to find a man for happiness”

5. Lonely & Boredom
“I think I want a companion as I grow old so we can look after each other”

 

 

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