Mom’s mood swings affect her baby a great deal. Especially so when the child is well “taught” during the full term. This little angel mirror mom’s inner wellbeing at that point of time and what one may have gone through 1-3 years before conceiving. An easy telltale sign if moms’ EMPS planes are well balanced or out of 100%, how much % of their time were they in their joyful zone.

Ever wonder why there are some well-defined differences in babies, especially newborn to approximately 3 years old:

Eg1. Some babies enjoy smiling regardless of how you “toy” or “throw” them in the playpen. Enabling you to enjoy your ME time, the way you deem fit and they “abide” readily! They are ever ready and independent to entertain themselves with anything and everything around them. Mommies somehow have a special skillset to control the child, making their lives more convenient and predictable by giving babies a schedule that would fit into theirs.

1 of 3 Some parents reach the extent of switching on hairdryer whenever the baby cries. In hope, the sound frequency helps them find comfort & familiarities like in mom’s womb?!?!

Pic of hairdryer in the restroom

Eg2. Some babies insist their way, throw tantrums and cry their heart out with zero tolerance of uneasiness or discomfort. Parents had a hard time learning their preference as their likes and dislikes change ever quickly.  Cajolement unknowingly became part of their polished skills. However, never seem to align and sync with baby’s line of thoughts or needs in time! Totally drained…

Eg3. Some babies are cranky almost all the time. When they smile or laugh, such moments seemed like a godsend bonus to warm your heart with wefie captured! Some parents wish they grow up overnight and get over with the episode than enjoy the precious moments to see them grow.

Eg4. Etc…

2 of 3 Be at your best frame of mind and “shape” when you wish to do your family planning

Pic of Pregnant lady with hubby in love

1. Carefree, contented and joyful mom generally give birth to a baby who is easier to look after, like in Eg1 stated above.

2. Mom who went through various unspoken/ hidden emotional upheaval, displeasure or unhappy “records” that may not have gone their way. Including receiving minimum or no support from the family members before or during the pregnancy term seemingly experience challenges mentioned in Eg2 – Eg4.

Babies are affected easily and almost instantaneously. They mirror and bring moms’ years of inner emotions to LIFE that sits deep within. Their birthday shall roll your inner camera into ACTION and re-enact what you went through emotionally and mentally. They are the yardstick of moms’ inner wellbeing EMPS-ly.

3 of 3 When one is already in a troubled relationship, do not use the baby as a facilitator or tool in hope to mend/ salvage the marriage. Babies conceived during this time shall absorb any form of negative energies.

Pic of baby and mom side by side looking up at something

Reminder!

Offsprings are not your “facilitator” or tool… Do not harbour the thought that they arrive to help strengthen, solve, mend or cushion the antecedent, soured relationships in the family.

Be mindful and in absolute awareness that the NOW is the fruit you reap from what you have sowed. The FUTURE is what you have consciously made good now.

 

 

Next Blog:

Ever wonder why would a Teenager be rebellious and seemed to be loggerheads with you?

Ever wonder why children has been good and listens until certain age things starts to take a turn? 

 

Yours, Energy Groomer

Photo Credit: #jonathanborba #marslady #lamiko #kpebedko_o

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