How Does Pillow Talk Work & What Is The Real Impact?

by | Feb 2, 2022 | Blog | 0 comments

How does pillow talk work and what is the real impact

Day 2 of CNY, let’s dive deep into a question posed to me recently: “How do I help my hubby to do better and fly higher at work.” This comes from a high flyer questioner!

In I-ching, the wife is classified as earth and the husband as metal. Earth (YIN) grows Metal (YANG). How well a wife’s setup, structure and build a family is very much dependent on her mind openness about money – 老婆的格局有多大， 老公的格局就有多大！

Because of law of attraction, both of you came together in sync with your level of frequency (voids) from within THEN.

With the right mindset, your job is to SYNC his to yours and grow even bigger. Mingle with the right community to flourish and avoid spending time with those who try ways to save yet feeling proud about their savings! Penny-pinching community will never grasp that TIME is precious, TIME is money! They do not understand the power of using money to buy others’ time for peace of mind. Sustainable growing wealth begin with a rich mindset.

 

1 of 2 There is so much a wife can do – The most crucial role in the family. To either make or break!

Make or Break

What a wife can do:

1. Praise & respect your man’s every small and big decision, NOT achievements, even if it went wrong!? Yes, including all of his bad choices ~

2. Do not be a MULAN. If so, you ought to have the ability to do everything and support the family from A-Z, head to toe and be loud! However, you continue to have a house, not a home😞 😫 😩

3. Do not be EXTRA. Do what it takes for a wife’s role, mind your boundary and “discover your strength” as a YIN wife. Open your golden mouth only when required and keep any comments to yourself. See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil 🙈 🙉 🙊 .

4. Nothing is too big a deal unless concerning life and death. Learn to mindfully “calibrate” significant problems to minor ones that no longer matter anymore. Bring into line – every big matter into trivial ones and seemingly NOT A PROBLEM anymore  (没事， 小事，无所谓).

5. Nothing is absolute. Every ‘should’ exists a ‘shouldn’t. Learn to BEHAVE in every way, from all angles. Learn this life skill; Be the most lovable soul, every individual yearn, enjoy and prefer dealing with ( 懂得做人)!

6. Embrace open-mindedness (看得开). Get over your calculative math, stop arguing over small money (while everyone’s measurement of small is different) and learn the art of THE ABILITY TO AFFORD TO LOSE (输得起) – because you understood that time is money and spending money appropriately gives one PEACE OF MIND instead of headaches.

7. Learn to willingly let others win in a small and straightforward negotiation and master the art of WIN-WIN. We don’t wish to win all the time and lose big deal one fine day when money cannot even solve your problem（ 舍得，甘愿 ）.

Congratulations! You have skillfully instiled so much confidence in him that you have unconsciously and unknowingly BROADENED his mindset and perspective. This naturally forced him to level up and observe his exponential growth over the years. When he can see what his boss sees, the subsequent promotion is none other but him. You just unleashed the best in him like no one else can do 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 !

You naturally get what you desire in life effortlessly because you have unconsciously “trained” him to give you what you want according to your expectations.

2 of 2  If you realise and unpeeled deeper, the RESET mode of every issue simply comes from different life perspectives – money related matter. 

Find Reset WORD Logo

For those who harbour the thoughts below, you may STOP here:

A. “Every family is different”,

B. “Easier said than done”,

C. “You don’t know what its like because you are not in it”,

D. Above are nonsense and ideal fairy tale,

E. Etc…

 

Energies transform and take a change only if you are AWARE, the willingness to change!

Understanding the gist of this statement is a lifelong learning skill: If you can resolve a problem with money, the problem no longer exists.

Learn the below examples of how we perceive MONIES. Internalised it and start attracting what you want according to your internalisation. See what and how most of us react when money deemed “wasted”, goes down the drain, and trivial matter turning into a BIG DEAL causing a rift between two people over the years with NO turning back when the clock struck one fine day…:

Eg1. Your spouse was advised not to invest or speculate cryptocurrencies/ shares/ JV business venture or any investment. He turned into deaf ears and went ahead, suffering losses.

Eg2. Your spouse bought something you felt was a mistake as you could have been purchased elsewhere for a value price with a better option? 😳

Eg3. He took things in his hands and bought something to surprise you without informing but surprised SELF in the end😂

Eg4. Booked a cab on behalf and family were late arriving. Hubby gotten an earful for paying unnecessary extra late turn up charges🤦🏼

Eg5. Your spouse bought something he deem delicious and yummy and slipped off his mind you cannot take spicy food.

Eg6. Your spouse spend on a business class instead of economy flight for better comfort when expenses are not claimable under company benefit?

Eg7. How many drive big flambouyant cars and/ or “WOW” carplates do this – walk and take public transport there! Simply because the carpark charges are high🤣🤣🤣 then cover themselves up with convenience or for the sake of exercise?!  These group of people stagnate even if they deem they are above the rest.  They have unconsiously made themselves the hare in the hare and tortoise LIFE race😂

Eg8. Etc…

 

❓ 🆘 ❓ Think deeper….what could be worse? Financial ruin?

❓🆘❓Why lose your cool when money can solve the problem? And when you “disintegrate” further, it’s just money. To begin with, when such unpleasant disharmony persist, how do you expect the relationship to receive positive growth?

❓🆘 ❓Maybe it has to do with your mindset & perspective about money being narrow and insufficient? Your man either remain stagnant with minimum growth and/ or give you your level of scarcity and insufficiency. Your degree of penny-pinching!

eReminder

Reminder:

🎯 WE ARE THE CAUSE of the unpleasant or non-ideal spot in the various sectors of your life. Before we finger point and shift blame, assume FULL responsibility to check SELF deeper.

🎯 The external of us tells a million stories of our inner baby; we attract and act upon our beliefs. 

🎯 Hence, constantly check and review our belief system. What we know and believe might be dated in this ever fast moving digital world. A good bridge to mind-body connectedness. This can only be done when we are mindful of our EGO, which governs our level of mind-openness.

🎯 No one is here to judge what is right or wrong. Our eventual outcomes will present us if we were right and instantly discern what we could have done better if you keep an OPEN MIND and be in awareness.

🎯 Let go of your FACE VALUE which didn’t work after all yet causes stoppages and stagnation to your relationships!

Wishing more joyful couples in awareness for each other’s highest good!

 

 
 
#energygroomer #openmind #eckharttolle #powerofnow #negative #positive #energy #vehicle #body #SELF #trust #squidgame #truth #wellbeing #growth #honest # #emotions
 
 
 Photo Credit:
@Adamwinger #Adamwinger @Mahroushouses #Mahroushouses @AbsolutVision #AbsolutVision 

 

Why Did I Fail?

Why Did I Fail?

by | May 3, 2022 |

tumblrtwitterfacebookinstagram CS 2205001 Age: 33, Female, Business Owner The business owner was...

read more
Breast Cancer

Breast Cancer

by | Mar 24, 2021 |

tumblrtwitterfacebookinstagram "The global cancer landscape is changing, according to World Health...

read more

Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *