How to focus & identify my strength?

by | Apr 27, 2021 | Blog | 0 comments

Pic of a eagle flyinf to the east

I always emphasise life is like a snake and ladder game. Mindset determines and sets apart all in this game, not our age or the limiting resources we have on hand!

STEP A. You have to seriously put a complete stop to your CLICHÉ “I AM BUSY”, “I AM VERY BUSY.”

Step B. You are busy because you cannot accept and agree to some truth and reality in your life. At most times, accumulated negative emotions thrown at the back of your mind since you can’t turn back the clock; when regrets, sadness and soreness are not released in time and transformed into growths and/ or diseases in the vehicle (body).

STEP Bi. Then when you looked back, deep in your heart, you wish it could have been better. When you realised you couldn’t achieve something compared to your peers or friends around you, especially during your mid-life cycle, you tend to lie to SELF to accept that you are in contentment or settle for something below your means. Then find a community of the same level to bring about equanimity!?

STEP C. You followed the masses and flowed blindly because you didn’t know what you really want in life.

STEP D. You need a couple of ME time to sit back seriously and pen down what you really want in specifics! Understand SELF by writing down your 10 strength and 20 weakness that brought you where you are today! 

StEP E. Your No. 1 weakness should have been “I AM BUSY”. You attracted the work you are being tasked with that kept you busy with hiccups, setbacks, interruptions and/ or minor difficulties. So energy-draining that you feel exhausted and wonder why others did not go through the same as you did.

STEP F. The truth is you did not set your mind right! You may have consciously and unconsciously brainwashed yourself that busy signifies PRODUCTIVITY and SELF IMPORTANCE!?!?😨😰😥😓 You NEED to clearly map out what you really want in life with STEP D by identifying your LIKES & DISLIKES (you need to be very mindful here – Not about your proficiency or capacity to withstand the level of stress). Review and check – how and where you see yourself in every 5 – 10 years’ time. Is that what you really want, and does it make you any happier?

STEP G. Identify your weakness. Agree and accept them for doors of opportunities to unveil right before you. And allow yourself to flaunt the strength within naturally.

STEP H. When you eat, sleep and talk with a passion so much so that people saw the ball of fire in you – Congratulations! Strength turned into a skillset for you!

 

1 of 3  You need to truthfully agree and accept your shortcoming/ weakness before the door of opportunities open and lead you to positive surprises that are beyond your imagination with SUSTAINABILITY!

Pic of a lady holding crystal ball leading a clear path ahead!

Every one of us searches all our life but importantly stay on track and do not get lost!

There is definitely something in this lifetime

  • We love and enjoy doing 😘 ,
  • A matter of transforming this LOVE & ENJOYMENT into strength💪🏻 ,
  • Something you enjoyed so much that you never get tired of,
  • Something that brings about satisfaction, fulfilment and gratification like a mission,
  • Something that makes you feel you are on fire. The more you talk about it, the more you feel excited 🥰,
  • Abundance naturally starts flowing for you in your desired manner…

 

2 of 3 Think about how and what you wish to indoctrinate values in your child when they grow up? What did you do to enforce and assure it happens in your way?

Pic of baby looking up

1. How many salaried based individual always find themselves undervalued?

2. How often you hear a salaried based individual speaks and THINK highly of themselves that they deserve more and better than feeling in the zone of gratitude to allow them to unleash their potential and be recognised?

3. How many of you think you deserve more since you are playing multiple roles?

4. How many of you think you can achieve millions of sales quota for the company and deserve to be paid more?

5. How many of you feel your ideas and suggestions are not heard, and your contribution is not recognised?

6. How many of you feel you should be promoted since you are doing more than you should?

 

If you deem so good about yourself, ever wonder;
7. Why aren’t you headhunted,

8. Why do you need to spend time find the next suitable job?

9. Why aren’t you spotted since you are such a talent?

10. Why won’t you be self-employed/ entrepreneur yourself or boldly take up a commission-based job since the sky is the limit?

11. Where are you now? What kind of lifestyle have you achieved before you start allowing your confidence becomes EGO?

Do you realise that your capacity is limited and has a calculative nature because your mindset is poor and negative?

You spent and wasted time complaining and lamenting everything and everyone else than looking inwards and finding a way to break the cycle because of INCAPACITATION, INEPTITUDE and INAPTITUDE!

Face this very fact and reality!

This is not even a poor mindset. It’s a MOULDY mindset!

Mouldy mindset = Mental block = Sick Vehicle (diseases and/or growths). Generally, this group of people are negative and ought to shun because they like COVID-19, who will “paralyse” you if you are not strong enough to repel the energies!!!

How you do one thing is how you do everything.

Does it mean a positive mindset do not fall sick? Everyone does, but it is the speed of recovery from a situation and how fast one acknowledges then pull out of the negative zone. Hence this group of people seemingly move ahead and quicker than anyone else.

 

3 of 3 Identify your own weakness. Agree and accept truthfully, so you see the light and hope when others struggle to find their way out.

 

Pic of a beautiful dormant volcano

Reminder: There is only an issue. You started raising your confidence over time and turned into EGO. You do not have room for improvement anymore…

Watch it because you have unknowingly created a stoppage and stagnate yourself at whichever stage of life you may be. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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@RachelMcDermott #RachelMcDermott

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