Is Everything In Life Predestined

Predestined would mean one is not given a choice to reverse his/ her present footing.

While the only predestined on mother earth, not within one’s control nor are they up for one to decide:

1. Who is our parents or our next of kin,
2. What and which background/ culture we would like to have at birth,
3. When and where are we being born,
4. How and why our physique is formed this way(our height, skin/eye colour, straight/ curly/ fine or coarse hair etc.)

1 of 5 Thereafter, what is unfolded in the future depends on what one has consciously made good NOW, at least 12-15 years in advanced 

The rest is made up of our very own choices, from our best and finest knowledge/ wisdom at that point time! I can’t stress enough for any individual to:-

1. Keep upgrading and updating like any software with an OPEN mind,
2. Let go of our own belief, perspective and ME momentarily to discover more or better options that are lying ahead of us, and that we may not always be right.

3. Learn to take other’s opinions as a pinch of salt and accept that nothing is definite in life. 

4. In absolute awareness. Much as we enjoy going with the flow of our careful plannings. Embrace abrupt unforseen changes and be ever adaptable to adversity that may come your way. Though most lessons are tailored according to one’s personality.

5. There is no secret code in life! Messages are around us to pick up but are we good enough to grasp it.

Unfortunately, most of us limit our own choices according to the circumstances we faced at times, and that made us somewhat “defensive” by putting up a front than facing the hard truth, open heartedly. The more we “defend” the further we are away from the “exit door” and the bigger is our lessons ( not now but to unfold years later… however since energies have been travelling real fast, some may get the taste of their “fruits” almost instanteously. We reap what we sow)

2 of 5  You have a free will of choice to choose which exit door suits you the best.

Is it PREDESTINED or common to:-

1. Have gallbladder stones at the tender age?
2. Have fibroids or cysts in the uterus at the age of 20s?
3. Go through an unhappy or heartrending relationship?
4. Have any growth/ cancer on our vehicle (body)?
5. Meet a friend/ partner/ classmate at a certain phase of our life?
6. Read an article randomly that intrigued us while we are in transport?
7. Learn something new, keep with the momentum or bend with absolute flexibility at the age of 80?
8. Have closed confidante and friends to do heart to heart talk?
9. Be in a certain industry and know your colleagues in that arena?
10. Etc…

YES! We are destined to meet/ encounter or undergo certain life challenges to make us stronger. The only difference is, everyone on Mother Earth is given a FREE will of choice to choose the timeline and if you wish to continue that affinity within destiny.

Everything in life has its TIME and CLOCK.

3 of 5  Loving life is about the time spend on the joyful moments when you are healthy and abled. To reverse any undesirable moment as quickly as we can. Let go the Me to another route of better discovery because Time is limited. For many, courage generally diminishes with age 

We have only 24hrs/day, 365days/year. We decide how much time we prioritise each day according to our belief system and perspective of what we “FEEL” is important. However, is your FEEL pure or disrupted by an emotional crash? What is your mindset when you first come in contact?

1. It is not predestined to have growths, cancers, gallbladder stones, fibroids etc.! I can only say one did not prioritise his/ her time to be conscious enough to understand and observe the vehicle(body) enough for such occurrences in an uncontrollable manner! Time is the fairest meter on earth and everyone is given the same amount of time to reverse what matters to one most!

2. It is not predestined to have to go through an unhappy or heartrending relationship. Yes, we do meet, but it is by choice if you decide to carry on the relationship when you deem unacceptable or feel uneasy. Everyone’s threshold and tolerance are different. You have the free will of choice to decide if you are good with managing your own expectations and emotions along the way. Some may “go out of shape”, some remain undaunted (not many). The ability to get out of the current predicament is capability driven by a very strong and positive mindset. Be truthful to the SELF and stop giving excuses and in self-denial zone.

​4 of 5 How consistent and persistent is one like this lit bulb or does it fused easily, go back to one’s routine “comfort zone” and habits in fear of the new & unknown especially as one age?

3. We meet a friend/ classmate/ working partner, but we have a free will of choice to continue the relationship when we grow and graduate. This is very much dependent on each other’s frequency, growth and mindset at that point of time and if you deem worth(according to your own belief and perspective at that point of time) carrying on. Sometimes we part because we are different, but there may come a time where the right growth mindset bring us back and align again.

4. We are not destined to be in the same industry we graduated from our faculty! How many of us do not come from the same? This is by choice and how the choice eventually transformed or consciously and intentionally moulded one into someone as successful as Jack Ma, Bill Gates, Mark. Z etc… which is very much dependent on his/ her extraordinary mindset and outlook towards the world!!!

5 of 5 A Strong & Positive Mindset Sets Apart All! Then comes the Law of Attraction to gel with one’s drive and his/ her everlasting fire from within. This would LAST one to his/ her last breath!

5. It is not predestined for elderly in their 80s to stay alert and updated enough to joke and play with their grandchildren or flex their body like a yoga fanatic. It is the mindset and lifestyle more than 20 years ago that kept them this way. They adopt certain good lifestyle habits and fixed routine in their life even when they retire! Hence a gem to the society and everyone you love because they are self-contained and independent!

6. We choose who be our BFF or colleague turned friend at that point of time, according to our belief system and perspective (we share the same taste, views etc…). However, things may take a turn simply because alignment gets further apart due to growth mindset.

7. Assuming we read an interesting article, we feel so much and had some take away for the day… Did we share it with friends to grow together and keep expanding it? Do you even realise that other than food, articles, topics or when we seek friends for help create another layer of bonding between both? Assuming some article helps in your mind body and soul growth, did you follow or exercise it religiously and diligently(24/7) with the right positive mindset to assure your vehicle is kept in good shape as you age?

Time to slow down, smell the roses and start mulling over it…

Yours Truly, Energy Groomer

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