What If A Child Well-Being Is A Yardstick & Reflects Parents’ Relationship Healthiness

by | Jan 10, 2021 | Blog | 0 comments

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CS: 210101

Age: 9 years old, Gender: Boy
Condition: Diagnosed Type 1 diabetic patient at age 7

1. How many marriages looked blissful on the outside, but in reality, it’s like a can of worms and mouldy when open?

2. How many couples have a problem even before getting married, but in hope or harbour the thought of having a baby can lighten the tension and bring back the lost joy?

3. The worst to happen is when you have entirely affected your child health check EMPS-ly.

Above parents are currently going through a very sour yet toxic divorce. For this child to come such a serious stage, parents were already having issues way before attracting each other. I cannot emphasis enough of one’s emotional clearance before meeting another partner to fill your void.

 

1 of 2 Think about why and what were you really going through before looking for “life-sentence.” 

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I wish to say this to all couples; Be very mindful of what you go through. Energies have been travelling in lightning speed for one thing to happen after another to shake up one’s LIFE awareness level! You reap what you sow almost instantly. We are not given the luxury to procrastinate anymore but a chance to make good forthwith only if you are conscious about it.

The most painful episode is when pain is inflicted on your child, and you feel helpless; you cannot do anything to help him/her bear the torment/ discomfort, and everything is just too late.

Maybe its time to ask your SELF, before meeting this partner:
1. Were you trying to find someone to escape from the present situation?

2. Were you trying to find someone to love you and substitute the void within?

3. Were you trying to find someone hoping he/she bring you the better joy which was not found in your previous relationship?

The worst that can happen is when your relationship heath check has affected and created an irreversible impact on your child/ children in one way or another in their life (regardless of age)!
 
 

2 of 2  Children is your direct messenger to remind you of your emotions at different stages of your relationship; keep hitting you back to force you to look inwards until the lesson is learnt.

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Consider yourself lucky if your children are only affected like the below:

1. Mild or serious eczema,

2. Rebellious at a certain age,

3. Seemingly more sensitive, witty-minded and much more mature for their age,

4. Cannot do an in-depth conversational talk with you and chat like a friend,

5. Frequent heated disagreement, fights and disharmony within the family,

6. LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual or Transgender) identity observed at some point in their life,

7. Unless in absolute awareness, else one would be repeating parents’ emotional history hence similar marital unhappy footsteps:

7i. Son to marry a girl to mirror and re-enact mom’s personality. Expanded version in many folds like a generation curse,

7ii. Daughter to marry a man to reflect dad’s personality or mom’s ability (YIN energy is always the most powerful and influencing) to manage a family with harmony or something else. Expanded version in many folds like a generation curse.

 
8. Instantly reap what one sows like 2 tight slaps on his/ her face to witness a real-life movie played right before them on thier children and felt helpless. Expanded version in many folds like a generation curse.
 

9. Etc…

 

3 of 3 Being in absolute awareness helps one to recover quicker hence the positive growth in a more balanced and truthful direction for happiness.

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Awareness is all about:-

Step 1.
Letting go face value, how others look at us and respect the inner baby (SELF) how we really FEEL from within.
 
Step 2.
Letting go of EGO within us what we think is right from our perspective. Don’t be too hard on ourselves. It is ok NOT to have every single knowledge and answers to life. Everyone we cross path is here to mirror and guide us. Accept it wholeheartedly that nothing in life is definite, especially what may sound absurd or not tangible to us at present. Enough of self-praise and start learning to praise others instead. We need not do something great to be seen so as to gain recognition from others! Learn to say “CAN YOU TEACH ME“, “I AM SORRY” and take others’ opinion as a pinch of salt. We accept that not everything in life requires proof.  It would be just too late when a hard lesson hit us. 
 
Learn to mellow as we observe the repetitive heart pricking matters and events we attract. Be mindful of our comments about them. What could be the lessons installed for us?
 
Step 3.
Be your SELF and TRUTHFUL to SELF
Ever wonder why we are so good at giving others our 2cts worth? Why are we so exact and quick in dissecting their issues? By chance, could it be we are allowed to look inwards and send a reminder to our inner baby (SELF)?
 
 Step 4.
Accept everyone is here to mirror (esp those repeating lessons that are seemingly heart pricking and caused frustration within) our inner baby to awaken consciousness.
 
Check by asking why am I (even if you are a lightworker) attracting the same type of people, events, heart pricking emotions etc… Do not be too quick with our judgement even if you are an elder. To comment, it’s either our mirror or we have experienced it. No other way out…
 
 May I quote this from a friend:
 
 REALTY & TRUTH IS NEVER MUSIC TO EARS
 
It would be unacceptable for most Moms to realise that they are more than 50% responsible for their children EMPS health check. Moms being the YIN energies in the family affect a great deal how a child feels and think from within and hence the way they look at the world.
 
 
Slow down, think, accept and reflect if you wish to reverse the change and make good (truly accept whether good or bad about your child’s personality is all about me) which is the hardest but POSSIBLE!!!
 
Click on this example. Events Plus Responses always yield an Outcome especially when the child is unconsciously and unknowingly taking in every single bit like a sponge from age 0 – 21.
 
It would be easiest to recognise a child’s strength is yours and not his/her weakness or shortcoming!
 

 

 

Quiz:

1. What does it really mean by you reap what you sow in this case study?

2. How to stop the generation curse?

 

#awareness #consciousliving #diabetic #EGO #health #love #beyourself #truth #mirror #life

 

@profwicks @jessicarockowitz @arcsigne @mariodobelmann

 

 
 
 
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